With Christmas fast approaching, folks are starting to ask me about what I’m getting Cupcake.This is always a dangerous subject and I think my struggles in this category have been fairly well documented. When it comes to giving gifts, I don’t have the best track record.Fortunately, I’m working toward improvement and I’ve made it through Step 1, which is to admit I have a problem with giving thoughtful gifts. It’s been emphasized to me that a thoughtful gift is something that’s totally unneeded, which is perhaps why I don’t grasp the concept.In years past, I realize I’ve struck out with gifts like an iron and a new set of tires.