At every sporting event, there’s usually a winner and a loser, though some games can end in a tie.I’ve always thought of sports as a metaphor for life. Who hasn’t heard the quote usually attributed to Vince Lombardi, “Winning isn’t everything; it’s the only thing.” Lombardi wasn’t the first to say this, as UCLA Bruins football coach Red Sanders said the same thing in 1950.I don’t subscribe to this sentiment, just as I know the scoreboard doesn’t tell the whole story.